6. Winks
These are basically useless. They have their own tab in the inbox and people look at them mostly to feed their vanity and that only at the beginning of their Ashley Madison membership. After a while, women tend to completely ignore the winks tab. Too many guys use them and they become irrelevant soon enough. If you really like a girl, just send her a message. A wink says that you are interested but too timid to do something about it. That is not one of the best ways to use Ashley Madison to get laid.