9. Name
This isn’t Xbox. Names like PussySlayer001 aren’t going to cut it on Ashley Madison. For the most part, these are mature women who seek equally mature men. Your name is the first thing she is going to see in your message and while you don’t have to use a real one (in fact, why would you use a real name and a site that facilitates cheating?), at least try to be polite about it. Being imaginative also doesn’t hurt.