10 Best Opening Lines for Online Dating Messages

Published on June 6, 2017 at 4:46 am by Jasmin Cilas in Lists

Your online dating game is a bit rusty and you are looking for best opening lines for online dating messages? Don’t worry, we got you covered.

The life of a single guy or a girl in the online dating world is tough. Although there are lots of dating sites and apps to choose from, the competition is fierce. Any strategy you try be sure that someone already tried it. Probably on the person you are trying it on. So what do you do? It can sound cheesy, but it is always better just to be yourself. This is of course if you are looking for something deeper. If your goal is a hookup, then be the best fiction version of yourself and run away before you blow up your cover. As in all things in life, the first step is always the most important one. If you don’t get many responses, your opening lines probably are not any good and when you do get a response you blow it up, so pay attention.

10 Best Opening Lines for Online Dating Messages

People from online dating site Zoosk have analyzed thousands of messages and ended up with a good idea about the things you should write in the first message. You should focus on the things that make the person you are messaging unique. Browse through the photos, find something unusual and start with that. The messages about tattoos, hair, glasses and eyes get the most response. Also be flirty, say that something about them is adorable to you. Please don’t use generic words as sexy, gorgeous, cuddle and especially don’t state proudly that the person makes you horny. You should get a response in 24 hours. If not, move on. Don’t send the second message before the response, since that won’t work in most cases. Of course, girls almost always get the response, but in case you are a female with slight problems on Tinder, check out our list of 12 Best Tinder Openers to Use on Guys.

In order to find out the best opening lines for online dating messages, we looked for recommendations from Forbes, Virtual Dating Assistant, Reddit and Style Nest among others. We focused on those lines that were labeled as successful in most of the cases while also making sure they go along the line with suggestions to be confident, tell something about yourself, show interest for the person and being funny. The best ones were then featured on our list. Just make sure to personalize them. Also, note that some lines will work better on Tinder (younger users) for example than on OK Cupid (older users). Let’s take a look at our list of best opening lines for online dating messages.

10. Simple

“Hey! When did you watch *insert band name here *? I love them!”

It goes well with the books, movies and TV shows as well.

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9. For Dog Lovers

“Hey there, this message is for your dog so please pass it along…Hey buddy! If you and your momma ever wanna go for a stroll in the park…holler!”

Used the dog to your advantage.

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8. Straightforward

“You seem really fun and sweet. I would love to call you and see if we are compatible.”

No beating around the bushes, cut to the chase.

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7. Everyone Likes to Talk About Themselves

“You seem a little bit quirky, which I always appreciate in a woman/man. Normalcy is so overrated. So tell me, if I bumped into a group of your friends on the way to meet you for the first time and asked them what to expect…what would they tell me?”

This is a great way to both start the conversation and learn something about the person. No wonder it ranks 7th on our list of best opening lines for online dating messages.

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6. Be Confident

“Very cute, and I see you have an excellent taste in men/women as well!”

How can someone not reply to this?

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5. Or Funny

“Does this mean we are a boyfriend and a girlfriend now?”

With this entry on our list of best opening lines for online dating messages, you’ll surely get some chuckles at least.

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4. Questions are Always Good

“Hey, what are your Sunday priorities? Netflix, chocolate, sleeping?”

You can go simple like this.

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3. Advanced Question Message

“Hey there, something about your profile caught my eye. Maybe it’s because the kind of depth you project is such a rarity among the attractive women/man on this site. Anyway, I’d like to learn more about you, and you seem to have a sense of adventure, so tell me this: If you won an all-inclusive trip to anywhere in the world, but you only had one hour to pack your bags, where would you go?”

Or a bit elaborated like this.

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2. Introduction Works As Well

“Hey there! How you doing? I am Danny. I travel a lot for work and spend a lot of time in US, Asia and other cool places. I love going to the gym, skiing and also going out to great bars & restaurants and having fun. What about you?”

Mention your interests and qualities.